Lauren Winner is the author of Real Sex: The Naked Truth about Chastity and she writes:
“Unmarried people are asked to specialize in creating an emptiness for God, an emptiness that everyone, single or married, needs to maintain . . . In singleness we see not only where our true dependence lies, but also who and what our real family is. Singleness reminds Christians that the Church is our primary family.”Also recommended: Revelations of a Single Woman by Connally Gilliam.